Rhytiphobia?

Im turning 30 this year! 30!!! I don't mind turning 30, I mind getting old.  The older I get the more vain I seem to become and I don't like it.  I don't think vanity is a good quality to have so I need to get over it ASAP.   Lately, I've noticed a wrinkle on my forehead and it freaks me out! I even started to avoid laughing so that I don't get crow's feet and I try not to frown to avoid frown lines.  Oh, and I try to avoid the use of my forehead for facial expression.  This is no way to live! Do I have rhytiphobia or am I simply vain? Either way they are both no bueno.  Regardless, I need to act fast before they consume my face.  My mom used to make me wear oatmeal masks when I was young.  I was like 12 and had oatmeal on my face but I do have really nice skin now so Thanks Mom! I'm researching LaMer, Amore Pacific and Perricone MD.  I've tried samples from Neiman's and I like those 3 the best.  They are so expensive though! I'm going to have to save all my Amex and Neiman's points to buy beauty products.  Currently I use Aveno and it works well but lately I've noticed some changes in the elasticity of my skin.  I read that coconut oil and olive oil are good for the skin too, maybe I'll google home remedies for nicer skin before I go and spent a boat load on cosmetics!! EEEK!